Is it good to marry your 初恋情人 aka "first lover"?

Yesterday we went to Pizza Hut for a "Team" lunch. One of our team-mate will be moving to another team in March. Though we are still in the same Branch, the feeling is still 'sad'. She is a nice gal! Helpful with no temper! I got the chance to work even closer with her for the PF project. Nice experience and she has been a great team-mate and project mate!
天下没有不散之宴席...
Anyway, one topic came out admist the talks & gossips ...
Is it good to marry your 初恋情人 aka "first lover"?
haha... the "debate" was quite fun and interesting! Generally, most of them say "Yes"! But I say "No"! Haha... If there's only one, how do you know he/she is the best?! Of cos, there's never-ending to it. ie. The grass is always greener at the other end! I still stick to my answer of 'No'...
There are 2 sides to everything... Depends on each individual. :)
On a seperate note, today my Director "came by" and asked if I'm ok? She said I looked "heavy", "serious with thoughts", "as if something bothering me?". Hmmm... am I ok? Work-wise, yes, I'm fine! But... there's something else bothering me... something else in my mind... which I can't blog it down here... This shall be with me only... You don't have to guess... cos u can't guess it... I'm fine. Really.